About Sir

To those following my blog, guests, and all others:

Welcome! Allow me to first introduce myself. On Edenfantasys, I'm known as Sir. I am well versed (I'd like to think) in intimacy, and I made this blog not only for reviewing products that I have, but also telling of experience and posting some writing that I've done (yes, I happen to be a writer). That includes erotica (sometimes) and anything else that I've put together.

I am involved in the BDSM lifestyle, and it is a large part of who I am as an individual. For more background, my parents were switches who were mainly bedroom players, but my uncle is who I take most after in the BDSM world. He was a Leatherperson. I had realized my love for the lifestyle at a very young age—I remember being five years old, going into my uncle's workshop and taking out his leather scraps just to inhale their scent. I was bound (pun entirely intended) to be who I am today.

I identify as a Dominant and have been involved in the lifestyle for quite a few years. I have been in relationships, both romantic and strictly D/s, with submissives, slaves, littles, and mixtures of all of those. Though I love being a father/Daddy, what I need long-term is a service-oriented slave who will follow my protocols and follow it well. I am an extremely high protocol and structured Owner/Dominant whose goal is always to reach M/s with that one person. I have a Fetlife account, mainly to get more involved in the community and perhaps meet people along the same wavelength as myself. Almost everything that I am into is listed there, but don't expect to know exactly the magnitude of those interests; you'll have to ask for that sort of information.

Reviewing things is very fun for me. Every now and then, I will just get into a mood and want to be able to write! Since my writing career has not been too successful yet, I am happy with letting that part of me out through reviews that can help people make a decision of, "Do I want this?" and sometimes even help companies make the decision of whether or not they want to carry a product.

I do consider myself to be very experienced in reviewing sex products, either BDSM-related or sex toys, as I've been doing this since 2008. Through reviewing, I have learned a lot not only about sex toys but about different safety methods, product materials, and even what products work best for different people's anatomy. Do read some of my reviews. Tell me what you like or don't like. I am very open to criticism, especially if you find something that I've written to be confusing or not helpful enough.

Interested in knowing what I own? Everything that is in my possession can be found on my What's in Sir's Closet? tab. If you want to see any pictures of (if I've not already posted), or have any questions about, any of the things on my list, go ahead and ask! I would be delighted to help you out.

If you have any questions about anything at all, do email me at schad3nfreude@gmail.com. Do not hesitate to drop me a line! And if you'd like for me to review something for you (for compensation if it isn't something I already own), I will happily oblige. I'd love to hear from you.

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