Goodfella's Color (and a Little Preview...)

I had originally purchased the medium skin tone, as you all know. After finding that it was a bit too dark for my skin's coloration, I sent it back to Edenfantasys in exchange for the lightest Goodfella. Here are pictures comparing the two, so maybe this will help you when deciding which color to get for yourself!

And now, a little preview of what I recently got in the mail and will be reviewing soon...

Bare as You Dare Harness by Sportsheets

The Bare as You Dare harness is truly just as good (if not better) than any other harness now on the market. Though it doesn't compare to my Joque, it's excellent because it not only works well and is sturdy, but it's also made of minimal material to give a "bare" look. It's one of the lowest priced harnesses that can be found, which makes it especially ideal. For individuals new to, curious about, or interested in wearing harnesses, the Bare as You Dare harness is excellent, and can be found over at Fascinations for only $25.

Now, the reason why I am showing Fascinations' shipping box is because I just absolutely loved the filling that they put in it. Pink paper strips? Yeah, it's pretty cool. They also added a business card for easy contact and finding. Pretty neat. They always use discreet shipping for their orders, so you can be sure that any order placed will be sent quickly and safely, without anyone knowing what's inside of your brown box.

Made with only three thin nylon straps, the Bare as You Dare harness is made of so little that it's easy to tuck it away in a drawer or fit it in a piece of luggage (or purse). It's also great for use in terms of packing or for wearing under clothes. I really found that, during use, the Bare as You Dare harness does not scratch or itch, but when worn for longer periods of time it tends to move and chafe in aggravating and embarrassing places.

The harness is a g-string style harness, and though this is not my favorite (actually, I do not like them at all usually—I felt like picking at my ass the entire time I was wearing it), it was still relatively comfortable and not too intrusive. Some people are completely opposed to wearing thong or g-string style harnesses, and for those people, this harness obviously would not be the best as its minimal material can and will dig into the individual's genitals and ass.

Pictures of the o-ring removed from the harness. Pretty hardware.

The Bare as You Dare's o-ring is metal and interchangeable. It attaches to the harness via snaps (that can be a bit difficult to open, I'll warn), which means that it can be removed and replaced with silicone or rubber o-rings. This makes the harness especially specific and personal to each individual wearing it. Since the o-ring is basically bare, it's important that it does not cut the wearer's skin and is properly sealed (which it is, I am happy to report). Its diameter is 1½", meaning that it should fit most harness-compatible dildos.

The back of the harness.

There's an o-ring on the back of the harness, and I still have not found its purpose. It is not interchangeable and cannot be removed. I assume that this is for ease of moving and breathing, but it would have been just fine with a strap in its place. I just don't know! I mean, hey, if you want to get a little pretty, it's a perfect place to add a tail or leash (which is actually a perfect idea for those who have kitties)!

Since the harness is made out of only nylon and metal, it's extremely easy to clean. You can either wipe it down with soap and water in the sink, or throw it into the washing machine with your other clothes. Nylon is not a material that should bleed, but you may want to wash it in the sink before putting it in the wash with light clothing. I personally only wipe it down after wearing it, but after repeated wear, it's best to put it in the washing machine.

For me, I find that the harness would be made better if it was a double strap (because I just do not like having the string up my tush!). Honestly, I might even be able to say (if it was made in this way) that it would be better than my (oh no!) Joque! The nylon, though thin, does not give rug burn and is very discreet under clothing. And even though it does become a bit uncomfortable after wearing for longer periods of time, people who wear thongs regularly will be used to this feeling. It's really a good harness, which I am glad to have reviewed!

A special thanks to Fascinations for sending me this harness, free of charge, for my honest review. Thank you!

Favorite Fridays

So what will I be showing you all for this week's Favorite Fridays? Well, none other than my beautiful Luxe White Collar, that's what! (Or my little girl's collar, I should say.) This beautiful, thick, endearing collar is just absolutely gorgeous. The leather is colored beautifully, the stitching and studding is absolutely beautiful, and ASLAN Leather even has a Lifetime Warranty on all of their leather products. Exquisite, and safe? I think so—no, I know so.

The lovely Luxe White Collar.

So I've heard some talk that this beauty looks like a neck brace. In all honesty, it sort of does, but that's what I like about it. It's almost like a posture collar with its width of about 3", and its extreme structure and toughness. This collar is definitely one to be reckoned with against all of the usual black, thin, "regular" collars. It's also got a really large o-ring, which looks really cute as it falls against my girl's chest.

Not only is the collar firm, but its interior is plush and soft, so it makes this collar much less firm than a posture collar, but more firm than an everyday collar. I also find that it looks perfect when matched with a naked body. It's great for rough play, and it stands up to just about any pressure that you can put it under. And did I mention that it closes by a locking buckle? Yeah. It's perfect.

For more information about this lovely collar, read my full review over at Edenfantasys. You can also enter in my partner code B5P at your checkout in order to get 15% off.

Wishlist Wednesdays

Welcome to another Wishlist Wednesdays, brought to you by..well...me! As usual, I'll be featuring five products from my Edenfantasys wishlist, giving you a little mantra about each of them, and then it's over and you do not have to read anymore, the end (which at that point, you will be saying, "Thank god this damn post is over!") So enjoy, and I hope that you like my picks!

Infrared Massager

The person who actually got me interested in this large massager was Carrie Ann because of her splendid review on it. Just thinking of the thing heating up for a good massage really got me interested in owning it for myself. And what's better? It can possibly double for a clitoral vibrator, though I'll obviously only be using it for nice, deep massages.

The Fix Thigh Harness

I'll be honest, I was not too interested in this thigh harness when I first saw it. I originally thought to myself, "Hm, now what would I use that for?" But after thinking more deeply on what I could use it for, I quickly added it to my wishlist. Lap dances taken to the next level, anyone? Yeah, I'm certainly buying this beautiful thing. I'm still contemplating what color I want..hm...

Lace-Over Satin Bra and Garter Set

All of the great reviews on this set make it sound like such a wonderful lingerie addition! I personally love the accents, the beautiful lace and pink ribbon, and how it's so classy but sweet and cute at the same time. It's really a well-thought out set, and it's extremely attractive. One of my favorite pieces of the set is the bra, because it's an under-the-bust bra top. Mm, I just love those.

Leather Pony Bridle

What to say, what to say...honestly, this one is pretty self explanatory. Though I just bought this recently, I am still listing it here as a Wishlist pick because, honestly, it's gorgeous. It's beautiful, and Sinvention's leather products are just so perfect. For pony play enthusiasts or fetishists like me (I love pony play accessories, just not owning a pony), this pony bridle is just exquisite. Do add it to your wishlist and hopefully buy it—it's worth the money, definitely.

Luxe White Ankle Cuffs

I actually own the Luxe White Wrist restraints, which are nice and plush, thick, and finished with locking buckles. ASLAN Leather's products are beautiful, and these are no exception. I also have the matching collar, so who can blame me for wanting to, you know, finish up the set? It'll look perfect, and work perfectly during play too.

Pleasurists #85

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